See It Through

I used to be the king of never finishing things in my life. I’d often find myself blinded by the bright lights of a new idea, only to be consumed by the next big thing. Temporarily high off the prospect of finally getting ahead, I’d end up back at square one months later with nothing but another failed attempt to get my footing. Distracted, frustrated, and seemingly unable to make progress, I’d lick my wounds and get back on the hamster wheel again. This cycle continued throughout my teenage years and well into my early twenties. During those years, I discovered just how easy it was to live in a state of perpetual movement but never actually going anywhere.

The world is a noisy place. Browsing through social media can be a trap these days. I used to look at all of the people who appeared to be successful, and wondered why my life paled in comparison. It seemed like everyone had a successful business, made more money, and lived the life of their dreams while I was still trying to figure out where all of the time went. I spent many days and nights trying all kinds of things, except actually being committed to one thing at a time. Learning to keep my zeal in check proved to be one of the greatest tasks I’d ever faced. Perhaps you can relate. Have you ever found yourself spinning your wheels in the mud? Do you start things, you never finish?

It took me a while to admit there was a pattern I needed to break. I slowly realized that if I were to ever move forward and realize the dreams deep within me, I had to learn to see things through to the end. I developed habits that were very difficult to break. For instance, I became comfortable convincing myself things weren’t for me whenever I faced opposition. When the road got tough, I bailed for the next big idea, only for it to meet the same fate.

Seeing things through takes courage, discipline and, heart. Learning to see my goals as small actionable steps helped me to stay focus. Patience is something that I still have to keep in check today. I often get ahead of myself, but I no longer let that stop me from getting things done. I find taking breaks and celebrating the small victories keeps me motivated. Also, be sure to use your time wisely as it is a finite resource.

If there’s something you promised yourself you’d complete this year, I want you to see it through. You have what it takes to get things done. Don’t let distractions stop you from doing what you said you were going to do for yourself. I find that completing things gives me the confidence to tackle the next goal. Remember, ideas are a dime a dozen; execution separates the greats from those who never quite live up to their potential. Don’t beat yourself up if you’ve been neglecting your dreams. I know what it feels like to break promises to myself. Today is a new day. You got this. I believe in you.